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Friendships

Friday, October 8th, 2010

Courtesy of Wambie.com

We were created by God to be connected with others in relationships. God created Adam so he could fellowship with him. God created Eve to fellowship with Adam. God’s word says in Genesis 2:18 “It is not good for the man to be alone.” God knew that we would need friends. There is something designed in all of us that desires to connect with others, teenagers are no exception. Teenagers seem to have a strong desire to be part of “the group”. This means different things to different people, however, the bottom line is, everyone wants to “belong”.

Wanting to belong and have meaningful friendship is great, however, to what extent will you go to “belong”, or be able to say that someone is your “friend”. This is where I see that most teenage girls get trapped. They want to “fit in” so badly that they often make poor choices that often lead to heartaches and disappointments.

Can anyone out there relate???

First of all, I would like to share that if you have made Jesus the Lord of your life, you already belong to the greatest family ever…God’s family! As a member of God’s family you are royalty, I know what you are thinking…”Me, royalty”? Yes, YOU! You have been “Fearfully and wonderfully made”, (Psalm 139:14). Now that you know how special God made you, I am going to present this challenge to you. (more…)

Teenage Girls Talk About Popularity (or, “being popular”)

Monday, June 16th, 2008

Popularity! How important is it for teenage girls to be popular? To what extent are you willing to go to become part of the “in-group”? Are you willing to compromise your values just to say you are friends with a certain crowd? Why is this worth discussing you may think, but of course everyone wants to be accepted. I want to challenge you to evaluate what your personal definition of popularity is. Let’s look at the life of Jesus…Jesus was certainly sought after , but not necessarily with the “popular groups” of that day. (more…)